sixpenceee:

I found an existential crisis in the comment section. 

sixpenceee:

I found an existential crisis in the comment section. 

The thing is: when someone calls you too skinny, that hurts. It’s inappropriate, hurtful, and makes you self conscious. But at the end of the day, you pick up a magazine, you turn on the TV, you go on the internet on a gossip site - what do you see? Women who look like you. Women who have a body that recalls yours, women who are considered the standards of beauty to which all must follow to be considered beautiful. You go to a store, and odds are you can find clothes that are in your size. Odds are you don’t have go to stores dedicated to people your size, clothes that might not be as cute and are definitively more expensive.

When you’re fat, not only does it hurt, but society just confirms it day after day. You flip on TV, you read a magazine, and there are no women in your size. Nobody with a body like yours, nobody modeling clothes or being called gorgeous. You go to a store, and you can’t find clothes that fit you - and even if you do find things in larger sizes, they still don’t LOOK right, don’t fit right, cause they were designed for thinner girls in mind, and making these clothes in larger sizes doesn’t mean it’s going to look good on your body. You’re told you’re ugly by a piece of shit and basically the world you live in says back, well, yeah, that’s true.

That’s the difference. No, people making comments about your body are ALWAYS unwelcome and gross, but a thin person and fat person still live in the same society that caters and upholds thinness as a standard of beauty. That doesn’t change, and that’s why it’s not the same.

— On why skinnyshaming isn’t the same as fatshaming  (via madame-mayor)

heteroh:

deadcyberbitch:

I HATE HORMONES 

really? i liked her i felt she had an important part in harry potter

iguanamouth:

"what are your plans for the future" *shrugs so hard that my arms detach at the shoulders and i am no longer asked any questions that arent about my missing limbs*

hogsmede:

bold what you have done

I avoid some people on purpose

I’ve thought about cheating 

I’ve cheated

I hate the way I look most of the time

I actually like the way I look most of the time 

I’ve been swimming in an ocean 
I’ve been swimming in a lake
I have sibling(s)
I have pet(s)
I’ve been on vacation recently 
I love meeting new people
I am insanely shy
I’m on a sports team 
My best friend is a boy 
I play music 
I don’t remember the last time I mailed a letter
I talk on the phone every night 
I drink milk almost every day
I’ve kissed someone in a bathroom
I’ve kissed someone in bed
I’ve kissed someone at school
I’ve kissed someone I just met 
I’ve kissed a good friend 
I like to read 
I like to watch tv
I couldn’t care less about video games 
I hate my mom and dad
I’ve had a crush on someone 5+ years older 
I’ve never asked someone out 
I can touch my nose with my tongue  
I love pizza
I actually love going grocery shopping
I love to travel 
I’ve been to another continent
I wish I had time to watch more movies 
I miss being a little kid
I’ve been to a public pool recently     
Summer is my favorite time of the year 
Winter is my favorite time of the year 
I have a favorite holiday 
I have a favorite holiday other than Christmas
I’ve been to a concert recently
I drive
I have my own car 
My room is almost always messy
I’m listening to music right now
Music helps me work 
The last person I texted was a boy
I want a new phone really bad
I love cartoons
The last thing I drank was water 
I used to play with barbies
I collect something
I’ve been to a carnival recently
I know what syncopation is 
I need to charge my phone 
I have a huge crush on someone right now 
I’ve kissed someone within the last 24 hours 
I’m still in my pajamas 
I have to go to school tomorrow
I need to clean something
I’ve hurt myself on purpose 
I’ve thrown up on purpose
I’ve broken a bone 
I’ve eaten something weird
I’m an extremely picky eater 
I’ve been out to eat recently 
I love going to the mall 
I hate big groups 
I remember the last party I went to 
I’m on the phone right now   
I’m watching tv right now
I’m eating right now
I’m on the phone, watching tv, and eating right now     
People say I’m funny 
People say I’m pretty
I’ve been told that I have gorgeous eyes
I need new clothes really bad
My hair is up right now 
I need to shave my legs 
I remember the last time I went to the doctor
I have braces 
I actually use my locker at school 
I get good grades
I have a MySpace 
I have a Facebook 
I showered last night 
I spy with my little eye something that is green 
I spy with my little eye something that is round 
I spy with my little eye something that is broken
I’ve had surgery
Someone I know has died 
Someone I know has had cancer
It’s past my bedtime
I’ve moved before
I’ve moved 4+ times 
I’ve gotten something removed 
People tell me that I have good hair 
People tell me that they like my clothes
I wish I had some money right now
I have a job
I need a job 
I actually got a stupid class ring
I’m listening to someone talking right now 
I wish I could talk to the boy I like right now 
I’ve kissed someone in front of my parents 
I’ve kissed someone on New Year’s 
I love Halloween
I remember the last time I tripped
I can see a picture of me from where I’m sitting
I can see my reflection from where I’m sitting
I’m kinda scared of the dark
It’s hard to sleep with the door open
It’s hard to sleep without a blanket
It’s morning 
I played soccer when I was little 
I played basketball when I was little
My ears are pierced 
My belly button is pierced    
I plan on going to college 
I plan on getting married 
I plan on having some kids
I babysit 
I still get an allowance 
I curse a lot
I got so drunk last night
I’ve been to a wedding recently 
I’ve met someone special on vacation
I have an accent 
I’m completely white
I know someone who has been homeschooled
I know someone in a band 
I can sing really well 
I can dance really well
I’ve never slow danced with anyone 
I suck at spelling
I suck at math
I recycle
I am pro-choice 
I know some rednecks
I want to get a tattoo
I want to get a new piercing
I hate MTV and VH1
I miss an ex
I still love an ex 
I’ve slapped someone
I’ve punched someone
I’ve been told that I have a nice butt
I think my boobs are too small 
I wish I could lose some weight
I can play the guitar 
I can speak another language 
I am fluent in another language 
I can play the piano
I’ve been told that I can’t dance
I’m a cheerleader  
I have a sweet tattoo 
I have a sweet facial piercing
I need to practice something
I believe in God 
I want to go to Mexico 
I want to go to Canada
I’ve traveled across the country 
I live on the east coast
I went to the beach last summer
I remember the last time I was insanely sunburned
I like to waste time
I like to sleep
I think I’m going to get asked out soon 
I keep a journal
I don’t remember the last dream I had
My first kiss kinda sucked
I think gay marriage should be legal 
I think smoking is gross
I’m wearing something that belongs to someone else 
My mom fixed the last meal I had 
I’ve never gotten my nails done
I should be doing homework right now
I’m adopted 
I love sappy movies
I love horror movies 
I love musicals
I’ve seen a broadway/west end show 
The last person I hugged was my mom/dad 
All of my grandparents are alive
I miss my boyfriend 
I haven’t talked to my best friend all day
People tell me that I’m short
Sometimes my socks don’t match
I can’t wait till my birthday
I’m a procrastinator 
I’m not like everyone else
I like strawberries 
I like thunderstorms 
Someone’s mad at me right now
I hate when people are rude
I’m an optimist
I am really self-conscious
My first relationship ended badly
I love when boys hold doors open
I’ve kissed 2+ people in one day
I’ve had a boy sleep over at my house
I bite my nails
I’ve been caught doing drugs
I’ve been caught cheating
I haven’t been to Disneyland
I’ve passed out from drinking
I get angry easily
I’m so laid back
I hate most girls
I love getting new shoes
I hate Chinese food
I don’t remember the last time I was grounded
I’ve been in love before
I’ve been cheated on
There are certain songs that remind me of my ex
I gave someone their first kiss
I straighten my hair more often than i should
I’ve been to a funeral this year 
I am insanely hungry right now
I liked this survey a lot
I should probably do something productive now

halinacrown:

Happy Birthday, snarkenstone!
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Anonymous said:
I've read too many sad fics today and now I am sobbing over the doctor and Rose. heLP I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

it ok


Lupita Nyong’o for Elle France | July 18th, 2014 

Lupita Nyong’o for Elle France | July 18th, 2014 

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